Build up the sexual tension

Build up the sexual tension

Sometimes, a woman will be horny and ready for sex without you having to do anything to get her in the mood.
Yet, in almost all cases, most women need you to turn them on by building up the sexual tension between you.
What is sexual tension?

Sexual tension: An exciting feeling that occurs when a man and woman feel sexual attraction for each other, but the escalation to sex is being delayed by them, the environment or circumstance (e.g. they work together, she doesn’t want to look too easy in front of her friends by hooking up with him too quickly, he is already in a relationship with another woman, they are engaging in enjoyable foreplay for a few minutes before sex, etc).

Whether you are meeting a woman for the first time, trying to get out of the friend zone with a woman you have a crush on or are 20 years into a marriage, the same rule applies.
Women LOVE the exciting feeling of releasing built up sexual tension with kissing and sex. So, don’t ignore the power of sexual tension when it comes to sex!

When you build up sexual tension correctly, a woman not only wants to have sex with you, but she also feels like she NEEDS to have sex with you to release the built up tension between you.
Sex becomes something that she really wants to do with you. She feels the tingle down there and wants to get you inside.
However, if there isn’t much or any sexual tension present between you and a woman (e.g. you haven’t been actively making her feel attracted to you while interacting with her, she only sees you as a friend, you have been together for 10 years and you can’t be bothered trying to build up sexual tension with her, etc), the idea of having sex won’t feel very appealing to her.